Dear diary,

       I have been called Strong and Disciplined so many times. But I just thought I should clarify that it is not synonymous to just being able to isolate oneself or fighting physically. It has a lot to do with mental endurance and the ability to pick yourself up and keep it moving instead of dwelling permanently on the negative. It is the ability to need strength but still somehow find strength to be there for those you care about. Being a strong woman is also being able to smile in the midst of troubles, it may confuse those around you but those who care truly about you will still understand that they need to be there for you and you just know how to try your best to make the most of this short life we all have.

Oh did I say being strong definitely does not mean because you have a J.O.B or are ‘independent’ and being independent does not mean you do not want to share moments with a significant other or cuddle up with him, share your day with each other and your dreams

You are not a strong woman because you do not like men 

Being a strong woman is not just being able to cope on your own and knowing where you are headed. It is also being able to admit that you need help, you cannot tackle everything on your own. So, choose to be that strong woman who allows love into her life (remember God is love). Love from someone and people who deserve you 🙂 

Kisses,

Lady P